Can a voice not be our own?

Yes, everything that is not the voice of our spirit. This can be the voice of other spirits, or the voice based on the false identification of our conscious or unconscious mind.  

If we follow the voice of other spirits, it can be really nice, it can be the expression of our love for others where we are able to feel the spiritual bliss that emerges from such connection. By doing so we serve enthusiastically the realization of the wishes of other spirits. This is generally important in love-based relationships. However, its downside can be that we merge into the voice of the other spirit and we simple disappear. Two spirits can maintain the flow of love, if there is spontaneous reciprocity. As in case of breath taking, where both the inhale and exhale are essential to keep breathing. When there is only exhale, or inhale there is no more flow, the flow of love stops. Therefore, when we follow another spirit’s voice, it is blessed until the point when we already cannot attune to our own voice, or our voice is not listened to by the loving partner, or there is no more reciprocity. These can constitute a problem. If the other spirit is directly the Supreme Himself, forgetting about our own voice can result in merging with His energy. By this the gradual increase of spiritual bliss and flow can stop and there is a potential risk of getting back into a lower, duality-based consciousness and thus false self-identification may start again. 

The other cases are when we listen to the voices of our conscious or unconscious mind, emotions, intelligence based on false self-identification or vibrations of others come from their false self-identification. This is similar to the case when we listen to those vibrations that come from the fine physical shell around our spirit. If we listen to these, it is like we are in a flow, continuous happenings are around us, yet we may feel ourselves isolated, lonely. And this deficiency cannot be compensated with anything else. This is a river of no love. If we listen to the voices of others based on false self-identification the result is similar. Just think about a book, a film or anything else from where we accept a good sounding statement that we did not filter and those result in not wanted consequences in our life from our spirit’s point of view. So, we need to be careful.